What does it mean to make love?

Making love is the act of expressing your feelings of love through sex. Making love often involves emotions, romance, and intimacy. Please ensure that you and your partner are comfortable with the method you chose to make love. If it is your first time, you may be wondering how to make love. This guide will help you make love passionately.

Beginner steps to making love

• Please make sure that you are emotionally connected and that your partner wants to make love. You can strengthen your emotional connection through words of affirmation, acts of service, physical touch, gifting, and spending quality time together and.

• Prepare your partner mentally. Communicate with your partner about the date, location and set the mood for sex. Keep actively communicating suggestively with your partner to avoid creating anxiety that comes with silence.

• Have sufficient foreplay with your partner through passionate kissing and caressing their erogenous zones until they are ready for the act of sex.

• Agree with your partner to make love in a way you two are comfortable. Sex may happen in different ways, such as vaginal sex, oral sex, anal sex, hand-to-genital contact, and partner masturbation. Be active and responsive during the whole session and let your partner know when to try something else. Tell your partner what feels good and what is not working for you.

• After making love, make your partner feel comfortable; smile, flirt, laugh, and cuddle your partner.

What to do

• Use a condom and dispose it safely. If it bursts, take contraceptives and seek medical advice.
• Please pay attention to your partner and respond to their needs Don’t be selfish. Be real and respectful.
• Say no if you have changed your mind or get uncomfortable when making love
• Play slow and sensual music to set the mood. A glass of wine can help

What NOT to do

• Don’t assume your partner is safe.
• Don’t fake the love, emotions, or orgasm
• Do not force things
• Don’t make love when too drunk; it may impair your judgment. For example, you may end up forgetting to put on the condom.